Listen, You’re Not My Girlfriend.

“Anakin: Are you an angel?

Queen Amidala: What?

Anakin: An angel. I’ve heard the deep space pilots talk about them. They live on the moons of Iego, I think. They’re the most beautiful creatures in the universe.

Queen Amidala: You’re a funny little boy. How do you know so much?

Anakin: I listen to all the traders and star pilots who come through here. I’m a pilot, you know, and someday I’m going to fly away from this place.”

– ‘Star Wars: The Phantom Menace’

…My problem was that I loved her

Her problem was that she loved someone else…

…Our problem was that we couldn’t have loved anyone else

We meditated on this problem for three years and concluded that…

…It’s not a problem at all

I love her, that’s my problem…

…She love someone else, that’s her problem

With this simple realization, we became free of all the problems…

What a liberation?

But, wait dear.

I wish life could’ve been that simple.


…Her problem is that she loves me

My problem is that I love someone else…

…We can’t love any else, that’s our problem

It’s a complicated problem if you can attempt to solve it…

During my college years, I felt all those love stories, that fascinate you currently.

They’re good.

But the problem is that…

They’re not real.

The angel, the bride, the prince, the love-affair.


In reel life, when we see our romantic actors in love with our favorite actresses, it feels good, and sometimes we’re jealous of them.

That’s an imagination, where every imperfection seems to be perfect.

In real life, it’s not entertainment. It’s hard to switch our roles. We can’t have multiple love affairs. What we seek is stability and life gives us probability.

In your life, you’ll encounter a lot of choices and those choices will write your story of life.

Please remember, always

Here we can’t take the retake. It’s one-time action and can’t be changed. Be aware of your choices. They’re shaping your future.

A single mistake and you’ll be out of the role.



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