“First, have a definite, clear practical ideal; a goal, an objective. Second, have the necessary means to achieve your ends; wisdom, money, materials, and methods. Third, adjust all your means to that end.”
– Aristotle
You can’t wait for someone to come and spoon-feed you. No one will come unless you have the strength to show precisely what you can do for the next person in return for his kindness.
You can sit all day long in meditation and affirm that you’re enjoying a delicious recipe; in reality, you’ll eat nothing. You’ve to cook the meal, and you must have the money to buy the essentials plus the wisdom to cook a nice dinner.
You can think about deligating the cooking part to someone who is an expert cook, but you’ve to provide financial service to that person.
My dear, no free lunches exist outside our homes; hence our priority must be to develop a skill to earn a good living.
If you’re weak and don’t have the strength to beat the competition, take the challenge to fight.
Invest in your health and get a decent personality that can attract others outside your home. Go to the gym, join a martial art club, or practice yoga at home.
Read good books by great authors who have moved the center of gravity with hard work and patience. They were weak but persistent. Circumstances were against them, but still, they fought the War.
They got defeated several times but finally won the War of Art.
