You’re special because you can read and write. Pick a good self-help book and practice what it teaches you. Create discipline in your life, which will pay you more than enough.
Develop a unique attitude of your own by creating a personality soothing to the eyes. For that, you can join a Gym or Martial Art Club. Practice Yoga or enroll in a Zumba class. Do whatever you can to keep your body fit. It must look sexy.
If you’re shy and think you have nothing to present in front of others, listen to Ted talks and absorb the content from good blogs. It will help you discover more.
Today you may be a failure, but that’s not your destiny. If you keep learning through self-revision and self-correction, you’ll acquire the traits necessary to succeed.
If you’re financially weak, focus on learning a skill to be exchanged in monetary terms and master it well to exceed the majority.
Learn how to speak and write melodious sentences that represent the truth you know about life. Mix the one skill you’re good at with a second one.
For example, I’m a trader and can write well. The two skills mixed up make me unique. Trading is my profession. It helps me buy a good living. Writing is my passion. It inspires me to leave my comfort zone and do something challenging.
This clarity allows me to stay focused on the things I’m working on. Everything else is a distraction.
You're out of the crowd when you're clear about your goals, work for an objective with integrity, and have a larger-than-life vision. You're naturally confident.