Learn To Accept People As They Are

“Understanding is the first step to acceptance; and only with acceptance can there be recovery.”

― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

We want the other person to be like us. We forget that the next person has her mind and thinks uniquely. We can’t impose our thoughts and feelings on others.

If you want to see others the way you’re, my dear friend, you conflict with the laws of nature. Everyone has her beauty and perfection. We must be willing to accept the uniqueness she is presenting before us.

We may dislike a person’s attitude, but it doesn’t mean we must reject her. Try to understand her anxieties and fears.

Make her feel good by comforting her. Say to her that I accept and love you the way you’re. She’ll be willing to sort out the matters if you ensure her safety and security.