“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
― Jess C. Scott, The Intern
It’s about love and respect. A relationship can’t go wrong if you love someone and respect their feelings.
If the other person in the relationship feels safe and comfortable, she’ll wish to stay with you as long as possible.
She has a few problems that she wants a solution to. She’s not saying anything; it doesn’t mean you keep talking about anything.
Inspire her to speak more. Understand the problems she’s going through. If you can’t give any solution, please be silent and listen.
Sometimes the person doesn’t expect an answer but a little empathy from you. Be compassionate and willing to help her the way it’s possible for you.
Don’t promise anything that you can’t do for her. If you love her, your thoughts, speech, and actions must agree to make her feel good but with integrity.
Remember your first meeting with a stranger to develop a successful relationship for a lifetime. The simple truth is that, in many ways, you’re a stranger to her. She still wants to secure her safety and comfort.