Why do We Suffer from Guilt & Self-hatred?

“We do not suffer by accident.”

― JANE AUSTEN, PRIDE AND PREJUDICE

Naturally, there is a vacuum inside us. On the one hand, everyone is successful except ourselves; on the other hand, everyone else has suffered less than we’re suffering in the present.

We never realized the dream of our life. Every day we chased a mammoth and got a sick hare to eat.

How can we accept our failure?

We feel inferior in front of others. It feels as if we committed sins in the past. Because of that, we’ve to face the rudeness of society. Our little minds can’t receive messages of love from the Universe.

We’re guilty of doing something wrong in the past and hate ourselves for accomplishing little in life.

Every day we witness the same thoughts of fear and anxiety that compels us to think negatively about our present life. We’re always dissatisfied.

Why not create something within us that can give us enough pain to realize we have done wrong in the past?

Guilt and self-hatred are the mental patterns we create within ourselves. We don’t know that we’re destroying our present and future by giving ourselves pain through these patterns.

We want to punish ourselves.

We can’t cure ourselves of this disease unless we recognize our self-worth and elevate our self-esteem to realize the potential within us that is made up of pure love.