We’ve made a lot of mistakes in our life. They make us feel inadequate at every moment. We feel guilty for our mistakes.
There is guilt within us that we cannot become good children/parents/spouses.
There is pain within us for being a loser. There were a lot of expectations from our parents, relatives, and teachers, but we proved them wrong.
This guilt hurt us. It creates a web of the never-ending emotional cycle that brings tears to our eyes.
What shall we do to avoid this pain?
First, we’ve to accept our limitations. Ideally, we must do our best to improve ourselves, forgetting the past. But it’s not easy.
Without forgiving ourselves for all our mistakes, consciously or unconsciously, we can’t move ahead in life.
Understand: Thoughts are a bundle of energies. They have the power to create us or destroy us. We can’t become anything based on the expectations of our parents, relatives, and teachers. We can’t fulfill all of our deep-rooted desires.
To run behind a goal without thinking about our strengths and weaknesses is insane. We’ll not get anything in return. We’ve to identify our unique edge that can turn into success.
It’s not a one-day game. Daily, we’ve to work on ourselves. We’ve to eliminate the thoughts of fear and failure. We’ve to develop endurance and flexibility in our thoughts and actions.
In short, we’ve to forgive ourselves for whatever mistake we committed in the past, and then we’ve to forget all negatively charged emotional states that make us weak. The day will come when we’ll be proud of ourselves for taking action here. One day we’ll become successful in our own eyes.
Today is the first day towards a life of success.
Congratulations, if you’ve been with me till now. I hope these words will uniquely help you as they helped me to become a better version of myself.
Be Still. Be Present. Be Alive.